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Just a quick message today before I go fire up the grill with my brother-in-law and jump in the pool with my son:

242 years ago, the Second Continental Congress unanimously declared the sovereignty of the thirteen united States of America from the British Empire. The Declaration of Independence, written primarily by Thomas Jefferson, listed colonial grievances against King George III and asserted an individual’s natural rights:

Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness

Today, I believe that no matter where you come from, you and I are entitled to the same natural rights now more than ever.

Though (some) governments certainly serve a few useful purposes (sometimes), bloated bureaucracies tend to prioritize their own survival above your individual freedoms, no matter what the cost.

When it really comes down to brass tacks, it’s up to you to protect yourself, your family, your empire, and your freedom from those who would try to take them away from you. As history has shown many times, nobody else will hold them sacred for you.

There may come times when you will have to FIGHT for your life, FIGHT for your liberty, and certainly you will have to FIGHT for your own happiness.

Freedom is a paradox, because it comes with RESPONSIBILITY. You are responsible for defending your own life when the rubber hits the road, and you are responsible for the consequences of your chosen pursuits.

So while true freedom is the opportunity to make your own choices, living a truly free life REQUIRES taking full responsibility for your choices, your behaviors, and your results.

And if you don’t like your current results — your current reality — there is nobody to blame but yourself.

This can be a hard pill to swallow. Believe me, I understand.

When my business collapsed and my world came crumbling down, I wanted to blame ISIS. I wanted to blame repugnant sex traffickers and martial law in my wife’s home country. I wanted to blame Homeland Security for insisting that we uproot our family and relocate internationally in order to get travel documents. I wanted to blame the partner who betrayed me and cooked the books.

I wanted to blame my mother for getting cancer. I wanted to blame my wife for giving me a child. I almost wanted to blame my son for scratching my cornea during roughhousing and landing me with an eye infection that took me out of commission for a month.

Hell, I even wanted to blame the flesh eating parasites burrowing intolerably slow and painfully through my feet.

I was laying in the fetal position on the tile floor of my 4-bedroom condo in Chiang Mai, Thailand one night cursing God Himself.

But the Truth was that too much avoiding responsibility caught up with me.

It was me — I had made every choice that got me there on that cold hard floor, pulling my hair out, crying and throwing a tantrum like my toddler.

Declare Your Individual Freedom

I used to think that chasing “freedom” meant running away from responsibility.

For 10 years I wanted nothing but more time freedom, more financial independence, and more freedom of location.

And I got it. For almost a decade, I lived in 8 countries across four continents.

I built and experimented with five small companies. We sold two of them.

I dated women from around the globe, and enjoyed all kinds of travel misadventures across at least 35 countries. But I allowed myself to get too comfortable, I let myself become a “victim” of my own success, and bought into the lie of the “four hour work week”, pleasure seeking, fleeing from commitments, and basically drank and smoked away a literal fortune.

In the pursuit of riches, I wrecked my health, and then I carried on abusing my body probably out of sheer self-hatred.

But it was when I realized my real RESPONSIBILITY to show my son a good example, to do my damnedest to be a good role model, to teach him everything the world will neglect to teach him, to be involved in his life and guide him any way I can, that was when my own results began ever so slowly to turn around.

In order to achieve true freedom, YES, you must cultivate an ability to control your money, control your time, and eliminate the mindset that you are subject to any higher authority (at least not here on earth).

But avoiding responsibility, perhaps counterintuitively, will ensure your failure. It will ensure that your health and vitality go down the drain. It will ensure that you create strained, stressed, and broken relationships. It will ensure you create chaos all around you.

You must take RESPONSIBILITY for your Mindset, your Health, your Wealth, and your Relationships.

This Fourth of July, take stock of where you’re at, appreciate what you have, and accept radical responsibility for your current situation. Some things will be great. Others may be a trainwreck.

This is not about guilt or shame. We are all screwups.

For my fellow Americans, be grateful that you ARE the privileged 1% of the world. The USA is an imperfect mess, but it’s one of the safest, most functional places in the world. For my Canadian friends to the north, happy belated Canada Day to you!

Wherever you are, I invite you to accept the challenge to take responsibility for cleaning up whatever areas of your life that are lacking, to realize the necessity for balance in your life, and how your mental health, your fitness, your finances, your spirituality and your connections with people around you are all interconnected.

If you go through life on autopilot, chances are you are going to let at least one of these dimensions of your life completely deteriorate.

So take responsibility to give each of these areas of your life attention, to go through your life consciously, to craft a plan for how you can maintain balance in your life, and always be vigilant looking for opportunities where you can seize MORE responsibility for things around you.

Declare YOUR personal freedom from the mistakes you have made in the past, from your baggage, from your stories, and FIGHT for your life like the men who built America had to.

Declare your freedom from the TYRANNY of victimhood. Choose not to accept the role of “victim” in this life. There is nobody holding you down. Choose to rewrite those negative stories. Trust me.

It is Time for You to Choose FREEDOM, Sovereignty, and Personal Responsibility.

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America homecoming

Rolf Potts VagabondingRolf is a high-profile proponent of independent travel and acclaimed author of the book Vagabonding: An Uncommon Guide to the Art of Long-Term World Travel — one of the two books, alongside Tim Ferriss’ The 4-Hour Workweek, that inspired my nomadic lifestyle. He also authored Marco Polo Didn’t Go There: Stories and Revelations from One Decade as a Postmodern Travel Writer and is an accomplished travel journalist who’s reported from over 60 countries and written for National Geographic Traveler, The New Yorker, Slate, Lonely Planet, Outside, The Guardian, the Travel Channel and much more, he’s an explorer who’s adventures have taken him across 6 continents.

You can learn much more about Rolf on his bio site and at Vagablogging, and get your hands on his exclusive bundle of free content from BitTorrent to celebrate the release of the new audiobook.

In this call, Rolf phoned in from his family farm in Kansas and we discuss:

  • Find out the one continent he hasn’t been to yet.
  • The similarities between a travel lifestyle and entrepreneurship…
  • Learn how living out of a van in 1994 helped give him the long-term travel itch.
  • The idea of “home” for a long-term perpetual traveler, and places we love to live.
  • Why it’s important to take control of your circumstances rather than being passive in life.
  • What it means to develop an “uncommon way of looking at life” and how you choose to use your time…
  • How travel has changed Rolf’s worldview and what he’s capable of…
  • How much time he recommends people take off for a RTW trip or a sabbatical…
  • The challenges of re-assimilating back into ordinary life.
  • Mentioned: Vagabonding resources and Rolf’s favorite travel quotes
  • What is a “Postmodern Travel Writer”? and we talk about some of the writers of the past who he admires most.
  • What value does travel have to the student of life as opposed to a traditional educational experience?
  • About working with Tim Ferriss to release the audiobook version of Vagabonding for the first time…
  • and much much more…

Find Rolf at rolfpotts.com and vagabonding.net and if you have questions for him, email [email protected]

Also be sure to listen to our past interview with Rolf Potts, in which we dig deep into the ins and outs of becoming a successful travel writer.

Rolf Potts VagabondingRolf is one of the most accomplished travel journalists of our time, having reported from over 60 countries for major venues like National Geographic TravelerThe New YorkerOutside, and the Travel Channel. He is a high-profile proponent of independent travel. His book Vagabonding: An Uncommon Guide to the Art of Long-Term World Travel was one of only four “fundamental books” Tim Ferriss mentioned in The 4-Hour Workweek, and was one of the two main sources of inspiration behind my nomadic lifestyle. His second book, Marco Polo Didn’t Go There, details personal anecdotes from 10 years of traveling and travel writing. With his extensive experience traveling on a shoestring, Rolf shows how nearly anyone can achieve the dream of extended overseas travel.

You can learn much more about Rolf on his bio site and at Vagablogging.

In this call, Rolf phoned in from Philadelphia (where he’s currently a writer-in-residence at University of Pennsylvania) and we discuss:

  • Rolf’s past life prior to writing two acclaimed books
  • His 2 years spent teaching English in Korea
  • The impetus for writing Vagabonding and his philosophy behind the book
  • Mentioned: Walt Whitman, other favorite books and sources of inspiration: vagabonding.net/resources
  • How living out of a van, traveling around the US in 1994 helped give him the long-term travel itch
  • How Rolf went from first published article to his first book deal in less than 2 years, and his advice for those seeking to get a book deal and agent
  • Mentioned: Rick Steves, also Travel Writing 2.0 by Tim Leffel
  • Great places for generating online buzz: The Guardian, San Francisco Chronicle, New York Times, and networking in the travel & lifestyle design blogging community. Make yourself very accessible on your blog…
  • “To become a good travel writer,  you need expertise.” Rolf recommends travel blogging, infusing your writing with personality, being as engaging as possible, and wise use of free content online to get your name out there. Listen in for much more…
  • How to avoid being a walking dollar sign when you travel in developing countries
  • Is there a rule-of-thumb for avoiding the typical tourist route and traveling to places that are not full of tourists, where you can find a more non-commercialized or unique experience?
  • All about Rolf’s workflow, how he finds the motivation to keep working even after becoming a stunning success (and being featured in interviews and media all over the internet and the world), and how to maintain discipline as a freelancer
  • About the sacrifice of traditional stability, home & family, and how to tell your family you’re going off to travel long term (note: it wouldn’t hurt to give them a copy of Vagabonding)
  • How Rolf started the No Baggage Challenge in 2010—traveling light to 12 countries on 5 continents
  • Mentioned: luggage-less traveler Jonathan Yevin
  • Lessons learned in hyper-minimalism: don’t weigh yourself down with things. And what items does Rolf now travel with and consider essential?
  • About the writing workshop Rolf runs in France every July at the Paris American Academy
  • Why he loves Bangkok and why revisiting Khao San Road feels like going back to kindergarten
  • and much much more…

This was a great one, so make sure you give it a listen! Find Rolf at rolfpotts.com and vagabonding.net and if you have questions for him, email [email protected]